According to a surveying statistics, the main fear of the contemporary man is that to speak in public. Al according to place we find the fear of the dead women. It could some be deduced that in occasion of a funeral, many would prefer to be in the coffin rather than to remember in public the defunct one. Nearly funny, isn’t it? All beyond the struck one, if this statistics reflects the truth indeed, the consideration precedence therefore is logically corrected, for how many sounds evidently ridicule.
What of is mistaken in all this? Many persons indeed would prefer to be dead women rather than to have to speak in public? The truth is that, like many other phobia, also the terror to hold a speech in public is attenuated in meaningful way as it is faced openly. The main complication, with regard to, is given from the fact that the majority of the persons thus refuses in way the perspective to take the word not succeeding to make it from being able never enough to catch up an acceptable level of emergency. For more, not existing an adapted scholastic preparation in merit, one very frequently arrives by now adults to the first impact with the public: the feeling that test, often unavoidable, is that to feel knots, exposed to the critical look of the present ones. He is sufficient to watch us around in order to render account as to speak us in public or a source of stress incredibly diffused.
Many persons, of it had the choice, would make some less completely, but in the daily life this is difficult, often impossible. Every one of we, to a point of own existence, will have however the necessity of having to face a public, immense or reduced that or, for the most reasons: an encounter of job, a formal speech, a reunion, and thus via. But, to the tempo, the good news is that everyone of us has also all the abilities and the potentialities, more or less latent, in order to raise themselves in feet and to communicate own ideas with emergency and effectiveness of forehead to an audience. In bottom, the ability to communicate does not have some genetic foundation, but it answers to very precise rules that can be acquired and applied.
Here, therefore, that it is worth the pain sure making a small effort, for less to the beginnings, to face to open ace our fear and to try to exceed it completely, in order to make yes that to speak in public it does not only represent more an obsession, but it becomes more rather a pleasure, a passion and a source of divertimento. In bottom, to learn to face a ‘platea’ is an extraordinary method in order to exceed the shyness and to instill courage and confidence in same we: this because speaking in public we are forced to face our fears and the overcoming of this phobia reflects positively on all this that we make.
